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Jun 19, 2009

10 Powers Of Love's Secret

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The 1st Secret - The Power Of Thought

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Love begins with our thoughts.
We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and ourselves.
If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize her when you meet her.

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The 2nd Secret - The Power Of Respect

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You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them.
The first person you need to respect is yourself.
To begin to gain self-respect asks yourself, "What do I respect about myself?"
To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself "
What do I respect about them?"

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The 3rd Secret - The Power Of Giving

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If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it!
The more love you give, the more you will receive.
To love is to give of yourself freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness.
Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them.
The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.

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The 4th Secret - The Power Of Friendship

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To find a true love, you must first find a true friend.
Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction.
To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow.
If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.

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The 5th Secret - The Power Of Touch

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Touch is one of the most powerful statements of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships.
Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

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The 6th Secret - The Power Of Letting Go

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If you love something, let it free.
If it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space.
If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances.
Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions.
"Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life."

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The 7th Secret - The Power Of Communication

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When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes.
To love someone is to communicate with them.
Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them.
Never be afraid to say those three magic words: "I Love You."
Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone.
Always leave someone you love with a loving word it could be the last time you see them.
If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and why are you waiting?

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The 8th Secret - The Power Of Commitment

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If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions.
Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships.
When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option.
Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.

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The 9th Secret - The Power Of Passion

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Passion ignites love and keeps it alive.
Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep commitment,enthusiasm, interest and excitement.
Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt passionate.
Spontaneity and surprises produce passion.
The essence of love and happiness are the same; all we need to do is to live each day with passion.

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The 10th Secret - The Power Of Trust

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Trust is essential in all loving relationships.
Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated.
You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely.
Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end.
One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, "Do I trust them completely and unreservedly?"
If the answer is "no", think carefully before making a commitment.

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Jun 14, 2009

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…hormat ‘ku untukMU…terima kasih…

YOU’re mine, FATHER

2nd year in memoriam
~ June 14, 2007

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Jun 1, 2009

40 Do & Don't

A handbook for each and every year indeed!

*Health:*
1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy..
5. Make time to practice meditation and prayer.
6. Play more with your children.
7. Read more books than you did in 2008.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day.. And while you walk, smile.

*Personality:*


11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake..
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a life time.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

*Society:*

25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day..
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will.
Stay in touch.

*Life:*
32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up..
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39. Your inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

*Last but not the least:*

40. Please Forward this to everyone you care about

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